
Puppy Survival Guide 3–4 Months: A Monthly Cheat Sheet For Raising A Puppy & Preserving Your Sanity
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Congrats—you made it through your fuzzy butterball’s first month home! Through your weary, sleep-deprived eyes, we give you this second chapter in our Puppy Survival Guide series for puppies aged 3–4 months. We’ll break down the most important milestones and steps to take for your puppy’s health and wellness, training, socialization, nutrition, safety, and physical development during their first year.
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Did TikTok kill your attention span so much that it’s tough to read through an entire article? We feel you! This essential task checklist covers the most important bite-sized info you need to crush months 3–4 of puppy-raising!
Essential Task Checklist For Puppies Aged 3–4 Months |
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Month 3: ☐ Second vet visit at 12 weeks for second dose of core vaccines ——DA2PP or DAP ——Rabies if required by law at this age (check state requirements). ——Discuss suggested non-core vaccines with vet (Bordetella, flu, Lyme, leptospirosis). ☐ Third vet visit at 16 weeks for final puppy vaccines. ——DA2PP or DAP ——Rabies if not already given. ——Dental check ☐ Enroll in puppy classes (discuss with vet if puppy is not yet fully vaccinated). ☐ Monthly flea/tick/heartworm meds ☐ Continue introducing puppy to at least 90 different enjoyable experiences (sights, sounds, smells, people) by the time they hit 14 weeks. ☐Be aware that puppies go through fear periods during this time, where they may be more easily spooked by new things. Take introductions slowly and use lots of treats for rewards after new experiences. ☐ Work on basic commands, crate training, and continuation of potty training/no-bite training. ☐ Check to make sure all puppy teeth have come in. ☐ Start or continue dental care routine with daily toothbrushing (reward with yummy dental chews!). ☐ New purchases to consider: doggie nanny cam, microchip, monthly dental chew + toothpaste kit . Month 4: ☐ Monthly flea/tick/heartworm meds ☐ Once fully vaccinated and given the “ok” from your vet, feel free to explore more places and carefully introduce your puppy to other dogs in controlled situations. ☐ Decrease meals from 3x daily to 2x daily for small breed dogs at month 4 (medium/large breeds still need meals 3x/day). ☐ If permanent adult teeth are coming in, check to make sure the puppy teeth they’re replacing have fallen out. ☐ Consider pet insurance to avoid future exemptions due to pre-existing conditions. ☐ Consider early microchipping. |
If you missed the first chapter of our Puppy Survival series, we suggest popping over there for a read before continuing with this second chapter. Here’s a quick recap of essential puppy tasks discussed in the previous Puppy Survival Guide 8-12 Weeks that should be started or completed during your puppy’s first month home when they are 8-12 weeks old:
You’ve probably already noticed lots of changes in your puppy’s growth during their first month. They grow up so fast! (*pinches puppy cheeks*) Around 3 months old, your puppy is still in their “young puppy” stage—a.k.a. the butterball stage. Here are some important physical development changes you can expect during month 3:
Puppy Growth Chart 1,3
Dog Size | Weight | Rapid Growth Period | Timescale To Fully Grown | Total Lifespan |
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Toy (Extra Small) | Less than 8 lbs | Birth–11 weeks | 6–12 months | Approx 15+ years |
Small | 9–22 lbs | Birth–4 weeks | 8–12 months | 14–16 years |
Medium | 23–55 lbs | Birth–16 weeks | 8–18 months | 10–12 years |
Large | 56–99 lbs | Birth–18 weeks | 11–18 months | 9–12 years |
Giant | Over 100 lbs | Birth–20 weeks | 12–24 months | 7–9 years |
In terms of dental development, your puppy is now entering what we like to call the “tooth fairy” stage. Like human toddlers, this is when your puppy will begin to lose their baby teeth (we won’t tease you for putting a treat under their pillow), and soon have them replaced by their permanent, adult dog teeth.
Here’s a teefie-growth timeline for adult dog teeth:
Eruption Schedule Of Puppy’s Permanent Adult Teeth 4
Type Of Permanent Teeth | Age (In Months) When Teeth Come In |
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Incisors (stubby front teeth) | 3–4 |
Canines (pointy vampire-looking teeth) | 4–6 |
Premolars (teeth behind canines) | 4–6 |
Molars (teeth all the way in the back) | 5–7 |
Right now your puppy’s mouth is like those weird dreams you have—just teeth fallin’ out all over the place, while other teeth are sprouting up like crazy! That’s why it’s important to check your pup often for teeth abnormalities at home and have your vet conduct thorough dental checks during visits.
Early diagnosis and treatment of teeth abnormalities can prevent serious and expensive issues later on. Talk to your vet about any dental questions, concerns, and treatment options. Here are some of the most common things to keep an eye out for between age 3–4 months:
Did you know that over 80% of dogs have dental disease before they turn 3 5 ? We’re talking bad breath, tooth decay, and infections by the time your pup is just a hairy, rebellious teenager. Let’s face it, it’s not easy to brush your dog’s teeth. They don’t often enjoy it, and neither do we. But it’s more painful and damaging to your dog’s quality of life to neglect their teeth—not to mention, advanced stages of dental disease can lead to severe health issues like heart and kidney disease.
Months 3–4 are a continuation of a critical socialization period that starts during your puppy’s first month home (8–12 weeks old) 1 . As their brain develops, this is a vital time to begin forming social skills, personality, and future behavior.
Every new experience or situation your puppy encounters helps them decide who and what to befriend, and what to keep their distance from. This is why it’s so important to help them develop these skills by introducing loads of fun, enjoyable experiences early on.
Remember that your puppy’s brain development is also going through fear periods at this age 1 . There may be certain weeks where they seem more easily spooked or shy, and other weeks where they’re more outgoing and curious. These attitudes may bounce back and forth. It’s your job to recognize situations and objects that may seem scary or overwhelming in the eyes of your pup, even when it’s ordinary and harmless to us. To them, this world is new and big and sometimes a little scary. Be patient!
Aim to briefly introduce your puppy to 90 different low-stress, enjoyable situations , reinforced by lots of treats and praise, by the time they hit 14 weeks 1 . As we discussed previously , theses introductions should begin during your puppy’s first month home, but you should continue to keep up with the practice at this stage.
Step 1: Slowly introduce your puppy to a new situation for only a few seconds to gauge their initial reaction.
Step 2: Remove the object, or remove your puppy from the situation if you see them tucking their tail, shaking, flattening their ears, growling, barking, licking their lips, or yawning. These are signs of stress or anxiety.
Step 3: Give them a treat and praise to help create a positive association with the situation that spooked them.
Step 4: Try again later. Repeat with treats, praise, and time to calm down in between.
Dog joy delivered every month!
By 3 months, your puppy should have already had their first vet visit to check their overall health, received their first dose of core puppy vaccines (DA2PP or DAP), been dewormed, and started flea/tick and heartworm preventatives.
Vaccinations are one of the most important first steps to protect your puppy’s long-term health. Just a few decades ago, before the existence of vaccines, the mortality rate for puppies was very high. Because of deadly diseases like distemper, puppies had a roughly 50% chance of survival after contracting it 1 . Vaccines protect against these now easily avoidable life-threatening illnesses with one little poke. A couple more vet visits during months 3–4 will complete each booster series and give your pup full protection.
Age Of Next Puppy Vet Visit | Purpose Of Vet Visit |
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12 Weeks Old (3 Months) | Second dose of DA2PP or DAP Rabies vaccine (if required this early by your state law) |
14 Weeks Old (3.5 Months) | Third dose of DA2PP or DAP Rabies vaccine if not already given (typical date of first dose) |
Puppies do receive a certain amount of immunity from their mom when they’re born. However, this natural immunity fades over the first 3 months before the puppy’s own immune system is fully functioning 1 . This means that without vaccines, puppies have a higher chance of contracting life-threatening illnesses.
The tricky part is that the natural immunity puppies receive from their mom needs to be low enough to allow their own immune system to kick in and make antibodies in response to a vaccine. As your puppy shifts from Mom’s natural immunity to their own immune system revving up, there has to be a sweet spot for vaccines to work 1 . Booster shots ensure that your pup’s own immune system has enough time to create adequate antibodies on its own.
The answer depends on you and your puppy’s lifestyle, geographic location, and risk of being exposed. There are additional non-core vaccines—leptospirosis, Bordetella, Lyme, canine influenza, and the western diamondback rattlesnake toxoid—that can help protect your pup from illness if they’re more likely to be exposed 7 . A discussion with your veterinarian can help you decide which non-core vaccines are right for your puppy.
Your puppy should not be around unvaccinated dogs or puppies until they are fully vaccinated (no dog parks, no pet hotels, no doggie daycare). However, after they receive their first dose of core vaccines and dewormer, you should talk to your vet about allowing your puppy to join puppy classes .
These first few months are so critical in helping develop your puppy’s future personality and behavior through proper socialization that many vets agree the benefit of attending puppy classes after one round of vaccines far outweighs the risk 1 .
Once your vet gives you the “ok,” you can begin to expand your puppy’s world. Go for leashed walks around town or in a park. Feel free to introduce them to new dogs, but do so with caution in controlled situations. Remember that your puppy is still easily spooked at this age. Larger dogs and big groups of dogs may be intimidating to a tiny pup. For that reason, it’s best to start with one-on-one meetings with both dogs leashed, as opposed to letting them free in a dog park.
Core Vaccines:
Non-Core Vaccines:
By now you should have already decided on a puppy diet, and are working with your pup on a consistent eat, sleep, and potty routine. As your puppy grows, you’ll start to notice they need less sleep, and require less frequent meals and potty breaks. They will fall into a more manageable routine—probably juuust before you’re about to rip your hair out from sleepless nights and cleaning up pee puddles.
Eat (Recommended Feeding Frequency) 1 :
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Sleep (Typical Rest Needed):
Puppies rack up more total sleeping hours during a 24-hour period than adult dogs, but tend to sleep less at night and more during the day compared to adult dogs 9 . Hang in there! Their sleeping patterns will slowly sync up with yours in the next few months.
Potty Frequency:
It’s important to keep your puppy within the recommended weight range as they grow. As much as we love squishy, chonky pups, obesity can cause joint pain, make breathing difficult, keep your pup from enjoying everyday activities, and worse yet, lead to severe health issues like heart disease and diabetes.
Your veterinarian can help you learn how to assess proper weight and feeding proportions, but as a general guideline, you’re aiming for your puppy to have the “hourglass” figure 1 . At 3 months, your puppy may not yet be grown enough to have a waist, so let your vet help guide your interpretation 1 :
After talking to your vet, you can view and download these helpful puppy growth charts to better assess and track your dog’s ideal weight and growth from home, or check out the Chonk Chart below for a general idea.
Although we covered this list in Puppy Survival Guide Weeks 8–12, it’s important enough to repeat here for easy access:
Alcohol
Antifreeze
Caffeine
Chocolate
Cigarettes, nicotine, e-liquid for electronic cigarettes
Compost
Dishwashing liquid, detergent/dishwasher tablets
Fabric softener sheets
Grapes & raisins
Ibuprofen & naproxen
Cannabis
Minoxidil (Rogaine)
Mosquito repellant with DEET
Nasal decongestants
Nuts (particularly macadamia nuts)
Onions, garlic, chives
Pesticides & rodenticides
Topical medications
Wild mushrooms
Xylitol
Yeast dough
By now you should already be in the process of working on potty training with your puppy, as well as not biting/mouthing, walking on a leash, how to sit, and teaching them their name. For refreshers on potty training and puppy biting, hop to the training section over here .
Follow the links in this list for detailed instructions on how to teach each command.
Even more essential than teaching new tricks at this stage is focusing on redirecting any habits you don’t want sticking around as your puppy ages. For instance, if you don’t want your 100-pound Malamute on the couch when they’re fully grown, don’t hold them in your lap on the couch as a puppy. Here are some habits you may want to consider breaking early:
Although each training scenario requires slightly different techniques and methods of redirecting, there are a few universal truths when it comes to teaching your puppy good habits and manners:
Note: The number one rule of crate training is that a puppy’s crate should NEVER be used for punishment!
A crate should be your puppy’s safe haven—similar to a den in the wild. This is a place where your puppy should feel completely comfortable; where they can take a nap and decompress, or hang out while you run to the store or can’t keep an eye on them.
Helping your puppy learn that their crate is a safe, good place requires training and encouragement just like any new situation:
Research has shown that puppies who attend puppy classes have a better chance of growing up to be less aggressive, more easily trainable, less socially fearful and anxious, and able to handle touch more easily 14 .
After your puppy receives their first round of core vaccines and dewormer, talk to your vet about when it’s ok to sign up. Although it’s important to keep your puppy away from other unvaccinated dogs and puppies this early on, early socialization is vital for developing their personality and behavior. That’s why most vets give the green light to start puppy classes after at least one round of vaccines 1 .
By now you should have properly puppy-proofed your home, acquired a carrier or harness that buckles into the car, purchased puppy-safe toys (not too hard, no tiny pieces), and gotten a collar with an ID tag. Need a refresher about this list? Pop on over here .
You got the basics covered, and that’s great! As your puppy starts getting more active and exploring on their own around 3–4 months old, you may want to consider additional safety precautions:
ASPCA Animal Poison Control
If your puppy eats something they shouldn’t, call the animal control poison center at (888) 426-4435
Emergency Vets
If your puppy has an emergency when their regular vet is closed, you may need to find a 24/7 emergency vet near you. Emergency Vets USA enables you to search for an emergency vet by state or call (855)-778-6815
Lost Pet
National hotline for reporting lost pets 1 (800) 486-2631
Dog CPR How-To
Dog CPR Quick Guide
Dog CPR Training Video
Choking Dog/Dog Heimlich Maneuver
Dog Heimlich Maneuver Training Video
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